Saturday, October 27, 2012

Moving on

The hardest part of moving on is following through with cutting all ties. When you been with one person for seventeen years, it is a major step to convince oneself to live independently. You have given of yourself for many years, lost your own identity, pored your heart and soul into one goal of this unity, and given yourself up completely and willingly for love. You begin to see the world through the same eyes as your mate.

You think what similar on most subjects that come to past. You reach the point that you can finish each others thoughts. Then you find you wasted so much time being someone else, and sacrificing so much for someone so small and not worth your love. I lot people would immediately leave a first reaction to the disappointment. In my opinion you need to make sure that the relationship is over and that you genuinely no longer desire to share the same space. Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go. Do not make decision with anger in your heart as it may not be you true feelings. Do not regret moving on, once decided with a clear heart, never look back.

I can react in many ways both positive and negative.
By forgiving and choosing to move on, one takes the power back to morph it into positive energy. Which do you choose? You choose to react as Jesus would and be positive as you move on with your second chance at happiness.Quietly forgiving and moving on is a gift to God; and yourself. You have to be willing to search, find, and accept a new happiness coming from foreign people and places. You have to proceed with care but not with pre-judgments, because if you allow you self to pre-judge you will run happiness away. “Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable”

1 Responses to “Moving on”

Anonymous said...
October 27, 2012 at 7:59 PM

I was with someone for 12 years. Iwish Icould say it was a fairy tale life. Almost was until I found he was cheating on me several times over the years. It took a lot of courage and soul searching to let go, but I did it and now I live alone, although it was very scary in the begining, however, I am happy now and I love it. Karma does what Karma is suppose to do. I am in no hurry to get involved in another relationship. God has a plan for me... when God feels I am ready is when he will come.

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